Couples Therapy

According to Psychologist and Author Dr. David Schnarch, PhD., who has published several books on the importance of differentiation in marriages to include  The Passionate Marriage  and  The Sexual Crucible,  contends that this approach of differentiation requires each person to face their own anxiety as a means to defining themselves while getting closer to their partner.

Differentiation involves changing the way we think about our relationships.  Instead of seeing it as the merging of two people into one, as has often been taught in both Couples Therapy and Sex Therapy, he contends we must learn to maintain a sense of ourselves as distinct from our partner in order to become closer to them.  Gaining more differentiation is not easy Dr. Schnarch warns, but for those who choose to become more differentiated, the reward is one develops the strength to love deeply.

 

::::   Until Next time: à Donf   ::::

Dr Lawana R Lofton, PsyDDr. Lawana R. Lofton, PsyD – Psychologist with one simple goal of making concepts of psychology accessible. || Follow on Twitter  @lrlofton    Read Psychological Précipice:  The Psychological Pursuit To Find The Best In You  on Amazon.   If you have not read it yet, I highly recommend it.

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